Dating Violence

It's never a good time to talk about this subject and it is probably more of a downer than anything at this time of the season, but as I was going through my reader I saw this post and wanted to share. It is a simple statement from a young girl going through a very unhealthy relationship. It is so important that we know these behaviors and help teach our kids early on the about the signs of an unhealthy relationship. It also shows the impact that education can have on a person's life. Madison was able to see what was going on, how wrong her situation was, and "break the cycle." That is what Anthem has been doing now for years, but not just focusing on the negative, they are teaching people what "healthy relationships" looks like. So many people have had few opportunities to see how a healthy relationship looks and feels that it is easy to slip into a negative one. Often that negative relationship is much worse than we ever expected.
This time of year we are lucky to have extra time with our kids and family members. Look for a time to talk with them about their relationships. Use your own as an example- whether good or bad- to start the conversation. And then schedule yourselves in a class for the New Year. You'll learn valuable information that can change your life forever! Thanks to Madison for her words. Follow Break The Cycle for more information on Dating Violence.

Letter from a Teen

Dear Friend,

You don't know me but you know someone like me.

I thought my boyfriend's need for my attention meant he cared for me, but his constant calling, texting and facebooking soon became an obsessive and destructive force in my life. It only got worse as his jealousy grew. I felt worthless and confused. One day he exploded and physically attacked me.

I didn't know what to do. I thought we were in love and convinced myself that his actions were okay, that I deserved his abuse.

Then one day, Break the Cycle came to my health class and helped me realize that I deserve more. They provided me with support I couldn't find anywhere else. I escaped my abusive relationship and now live free from violence and fear.

Please help Break the Cycle help the millions of teens who are just like me.

Madison M., 17 years-old

-Published on November 4, 2010